Author Archives: Brandi Defa

Hey…here, I am 😝 Such a bad blogger….all this stuff in my head, needs to go down on paper 🤦‍♀️. I was driving to 7-11 tonight (in a snowstorm, to get my hotdog for dinner at 9 pm) and I have had so much on my mind lately. It’s amazing how songs come on and spark memoriesContinue reading “November 28, 2022”

I was just thinking about the blog, so I thought I would hop on and do a little update. Dave had been at work last week every day (up until Thursday). He works for Downeast Home and Downeast Clothing….I’m going to just put in here that everyone needs to go and support these companies. TheContinue reading “October 3rd, 2022”

Hi……It has been a while since I posted, so I am here with an update and what’s going on in our life. Dave has continued with outpatient Chemo; he goes every 3 weeks. The day after Chemo he goes back, and they do the Chemo in his spine, and they give him a shot thatContinue reading “September 26, 2022”

Dave started his outpatient chemo today. We had to be up there at 7:30…am 🤦‍♀️. Even though it was outpatient chemo, it was still a 4 hour event and Dave’s anxiety was through the roof. They give him premeds before they do the chemo so he doesn’t get sick. I wheel him around in aContinue reading “September 2, 2022”

Dave is still at my moms and he is doing better every day. His legs still hurt but he is walking more and more. We had an appointment today with our oncologist. We were both pretty down going into this appointment, it was still showing in his my chart that he was to be readmittedContinue reading “August 30, 2022”

The last couple of days have been a whirlwind. Dave finally got sprung yesterday 🙌……the doctors were all a little hesitant, but Dave needed to get out of there for awhile, so we were leaving no matter what – I think they knew that. So per the agreement, Dave is at my moms house –Continue reading “August 28, 2022”

So I have decided I’m one of the worst bloggers 🤦‍♀️, so bear with me, I’m still trying to figure out this site. Anyway, today has been a long day. Taylor has been here with me for a month. Not only did he help me a ton with my kitties and everything else, it wasContinue reading “August 24, 2022”